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NLP &
BELIEF
What is belief?,
How beliefs are formed?,
What role does beliefs play in our
life?
Are some of the question to be asked
.Many are not aware of this andwith out proper understanding
carry their own belief which may be limited and it may cause
lot of challenges in ones life.
What is Belief?
Sales executive may believe that the sale
is not going to materialize or the product is high priced or
his/her target is not rationals.
Child may believe that s/he may fail in
maths
Wife may believe that she is not good in
cooking
Graduate may believe that he may not get
the job
Etc.
These are some of the beliefs and now let
us see how beliefs are formed?
Beliefs are formed in young age of a
person. When a child is young the parent says or spanks the
child that he is not good at any thing. As the child is in the
stage of learning how to do and the parent with their
competence and perfection wants the child to achieve the same
level. Child then tries it with their friends, if once again
some one says that it is not good then this particular point
get fixed in mind. As the child grows s/he has to be in group
and work in a team as well as prove to her/his parents that
they are outperforming. The parents who had not understood the
child and who expects a perfection of grown ups are not in a
position to encourage the child and help the child to develop
their abilities .
As the child reaches the teen age, the
point of not doing good becomes stronger as the confidence
level and the self esteem is low. The child may not perform
well and starts following as even teachers is not in a
position to encourage by finding out the cause .The teachers
are busy in giving their praise to students who score high or
who succeeds in various competition and making them as
representatives .
Child who has the point fixed (not good)
gets reinforced every now and then by the people around them
and as the person enters in to college life ,they with the
limiting belief shy out from the responsibilities given to
them and may not even participate in many of the activities.
As adult they start their life career in a low paid job or
they may join a good job and may not perform and come to a
stand still.
Above I had given only an example and
beliefs exist in every person. A CEO may believe that
investment in expansion is waste or a field executive may
believe that his workers are not educated to give in their
views or a husband may believe that wife as a woman has to
listen to him or a Teacher may believe that students has to
listen them.
The most interesting thing is that even
people well learned believe that they know every thing in
their field of work as they may not see some of the subtle
areas and finally they blame on others.
I had classified belief as
Limiting Beliefs
Empowering beliefs
Over empowered beliefs
Understanding and Updating beliefs are
those beliefs where you have confidence and self esteem in
proper ratio or proportion.
Over Empowered beliefs are like over
confidence where by one thinks that what ever s/he says and
does is right possibly till the time is in their way. One has
to remember we work according to time ,Time does not work for
us.
Confidence is like riding a bicycle
during learning with out others help in the street where there
is no much traffic and over confidence is one taking the
bicycle in the main road and trying to ride by leaving a hand.
Here when the rider falls then the incident some times becomes
a beliefs where by s/he never touches the cycle again orthat
matter any vehicle if the emotional pain suffered by the
accident is more and this becomes a limiting Belief.
What role that Beliefs play in ones
life?
Interesting every being if you ask me
function based only on their beliefs in this material world
.success and failure ,Happiness and sorrow, Satisfaction and
Dissatisfaction ,confident etc are mostly based on ones belief
.In my previous example I had outlined how a belief of not
good had been formed in a person and let me tell you some of
the effects.
As a adult with belief of not good enough
will not perform well in both in personal as well as in the
professional part. Personally he may not be out spoken, he may
shy out in the relationship with his partner, with his friends
and relatives. S/He may get in to unproductive habits like
smoking ,Drinking ,Drugs.
Professionally ,S/He may not be in job
which demands more responsibility ,creativity ,pressure they
may be as a blue colour worker who is comfortable with routine
jobs.
A child with this belief may not be a
good team worker ,may be alone, performance in school as well
as in other activities may be less or totally absent.
May have friends with problematic
behaviour ,may lie ,blame ,steal etc.
What are the ways to have empowering
Belief?
NLP helps to unlearn our disempowering
beliefs by working with oneself and relearn a empowering one
as one has the power with in themselves to reinforce
it.
If you can understand your belief system
then you can be free of your emotional and physical disorders
.Success becomes a part of you .If one thinks S/He have
empowering beliefs and only because of it one has reached to
this particular position then I ask them to check once again
If you are a executive then what has stopped you to become
manager if you are a manager then what is stopping you of
becoming General manager or CEO or chairman or President
.
Every one have beliefs and most of them
are aware of what is their belief is as probably they may not
know exactly what beliefs are or they are lethargic or stuck
in the challenges of every moment etc .Some times one take it
easily for granted and normally put this way as
“My mother did so I am also doing
it”
This reminds me of a story some time back
a wonderful understanding couple lived in Bangalore . Satish
was a software engineer and his wife Rashmi was in HR .They
lived along with his mother and father .Satish was very fond
of turkey prepared by his mother and he asked Rashmi to learn
the method of preparation from his mother .Rashmi too agreed
and was learning the lesson from her in law. Rashmi’s
mother-in- law cleaned the turkey and took off the tail
portion and marinated with her secret recipe and cooked it in
oven .Rashmi by seeing this was questioning her mother in law
for better understanding as she was questioning Rashmi asked
her in law what was the reason behind cutting the tail portion
,her in law replied “for this you have to ask my mother and I
am doing what my mother used to do” .Days passed and they made
a trip to their home town Mysore. There Rashmi’s in laws
mother was asked to cook turkey and Rashmi was eager to learn
more about the style .As Rashmi was observing and learning she
did every thing more or less the same as her in law and
finally she did not cut the tail portion of turkey by seeing
this Rashmi asked her why she had not done so? and explained
what she learned from her mother in law and the way she used
to throw off the tail portion ,Rashmi asked her why she is not
doing the way she was doing it earlier .Mother in laws mother
replied that, during our days we were not having big oven or
grill or utensil so when the tail has been cut the turkey fits
into the utensil we were having .Now we have ample space to
cook the turkey as it is.
The above story depicts how people
followbeliefs blindly and how beliefs
are formed by the influence of authority and more
interestingly how the limiting beliefs can be carried for a
long time until you become aware of your self and realize that
NLP helps you to identify the limiting beliefs and understand
the cause of it and the effect it imposes in you and finally
to drop it and learn a new belief.
CHOOSE THE BEST NOW AS YOUR DECISION MAY
SHAPE TOMORROW
Shihan Dr.C.J.Jeyachander. the NLP
WAY.
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NLP & Self
NLP is a way of life and also a
ingredient like salt/sugar in food it is to life .NLP is magic
this reminds me of a story Long time back there was a big
emperor ruling a huge empire and he had a son as the emperor
was coming to the stage of retirement and as the prince was
not aware about himself and the external world emperor sent
the prince for touring the empire. Prince believed his father
and his father as god as the emperor thought him that he is
god and there is no island in his empire. Prince after
traveling the empire at last came down a mountain and was
enjoying the beautiful sunset on the sea shore. when he was
fiesting his eyes his vision got struck to a person with dark
meroon robes and with a hat standing in the middle of the sea,
Prince asked him who and what is he doing there. The man said
that he is standing on a island and he is god. This was
against his belief that his father is god and there is no
island the man challenged him, The Prince went to the palace
and met his father and narrated what he saw on the sea shore
,the father said that the man was lying and he is god and
there are no island and the person he met was magician. Prince
some what consolidated went to the person standing and said
that he is magician and that is not a island. The person said
him firmly that no your father is a magician and I am GOD.
Prince could not believe himself and all his hopes, believes
was just started to tumble. Prince went firmly to father and
said that you are a magician and not god then all of a sudden
the emperor with his barring voice commanded let the death
come and take you as the prince was trembling with fear as the
death was approaching then that moment he decided not
MORE............. and with his full strength and authority
commanded let this death have death that point of time every
thing vanished from him and his father saw him and said yes
son I am a Magician and the person you met is god and now you
are an magician and handed over the empire to him.
NLP transforms any one living
by it a person of strength, powerful, motivated, completely
aware of every moment, totaly charged , always be in the high
state of energy, and more... If you want to be a
MAGICIAN then NLP is the way.
If you may choose to be an NLP er
then the entire world will change for you with lot abundance
and unlimited resources.
Hearing the words or reading the
words may stay for few days and understanding, practicing will
make you to believe yourself.
I used to wonder how people are
more successful and why many are not. sometimes in
their field as you may see, hear in this practical world many
organization and people who was successful and top achievers
could not sustain or continue further. NLP is the source code
for your questions.
through NLP you may convert your
FEAR to Power.
NLP is an powerful
amunition to destroy your own negative, non productive
thoughts and also others unwanted or unauthorized influences
on you.
CHANGE WITH NLP
Shihan
C.J.Jeyachander. the NLP WAY.
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NLP & Rapport
Rapport,which is important in any
relationship and any situation. It makes an unison in
relation. Unison is nothing but dancing together.When you are
totaly involved in an activity /seminar/sales/negotiation go
back to the point of time and visualize what happened then.
Can you spot out
what was special on that occasion which made the magic. How
was your feeling, what you saw happening and what you heared?
Can you write down the steps so that you can make it happen
once again .
Now go to a
situation where you were very much confident about your
presentation and you are still wondering how you could not
convince the group or client.
I believe trust
plays a major role in any relationship it might be personal or
business.To build trust can you write some of the essential
points .Trust once created with a person will last long , then
the other person starts believing you completly.Now you have
to answer this question, how many days you need to create
trust?
how many days it
will take you to trust some one?
Here I have not
asked you what are the factors necessary for you to trust
others. I had focussed on the time period.
Why?
Take for example you are in a retail
bussiness and you have to finish the deal in the same place or
for that matter in this age of globalization a deal has to be
clinched in the first meeting itself.
Though you might have a belief that trust
take long time in any relationship.
I'll tell you in NLP it can be created
and maintained with in fraction of "seconds''
Here I had mentioned" seconds" Wondering!
Starting from physical, mental and emotional you can make the
other person see,hear and feel that you are like him.
LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE
Through NLP you can convert anyone by
understanding their world first and attach your requirements
as additions.It is like in a relationship there is no
compulsion wife may like watching TV and husband may like to
read. If there is a trust and an approach of give and
take.Then the relation will be fine.
GIVE and TAKE
NLP Rapport first makes you understand
about others and this helps to create trust in others .Then it
helps to maintain turst so you are with them and when the link
becomes strong then you lead the other person.
For many Sales
personals /Negotiaters /Proffessionals, clinching a deal
may be a magic and here Iam not talking about average
performance and top performance Iam talking about consistant
banchmarking with the process of undrstanding others in
relationship .
but for person equiped with NLP it is
feedback.
NLP -helps you to progam yourself and be
in the state of total awarness.You probably might agree that
most of time we are not aware and you may choose to be aware
from now on and NLP helps you to create relationships in
seconds and have total control of it .If you are going back to
the valuable time when the you can see and feel the failure in
personal and business you will probably understand how NLP may
help you achieve and maintain the position.
change is the one that is permenant.
Shihan
Dr.C.J.Jeyachander. the NLP WAY.
Become a certified NLP
practitioner
Shihan C.J.Jeyachander. the
NLP WAY.
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Jack of All Trades and Master of None
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Have you heard this old saying and in
this dynamic world let us see how this old saying has been
followed by all most all.
Take a example of a computer imagine that
the system can run only one software and the system is
specially designed and developed for that purpose for example
say the system can only do document oriented work, can you
tell me how the product will fare well in the market..
Oh yes I intuitively understood your
answers and now let us go through the principle of mastering
one skill in humans.
Is there any organization that is
satisfied with its workforce to get specialized only in
one skill. Just
take time to answer, may be there is a profound understanding
which this article may reveal like an Aladdin’s magic lamp. I
guess and wonder even the employers are making many of the
skills and qualities that are MUST in their employees and are
training them specially. An employee has to be multifaceted
and he must have high level of competence and skill to lead a
team, a department, a branch, a unit anda organization. So before reaching
the level of CEO, CFO,COO one must have proficiency in
all the departments and the working of each and every area is
must.
If you don’t want to be in the upper
layer of leader then there is no need for you to know.
As this the case and for maintaining the
position in the market place an organization has to be
continuously inventing and introducing new products to sustain
its present level of market share. If this is not been adhered
then there are many examples like HM, FIAT, APPLE etc and if
you ask me each and every organization is facing this some
where or other at some point of time.
Now ask yourself is this true and be
honest. Learning needs understanding and the earlier one
understands one can actually go ahead which is a quality of a
leader. When the organization or to say the leader as s/he is
the person responsible for taking the decision which is most
crucial is responsible for success.
When even a mobile phone that you have,
have almost all the features the order of today is more
services from one provider or product.
All multi level stores like Fab mall, Food world,
Reliance,subiksha, stoppers shop etc
started providing almost allproduct’s under one single roof
and no one questions. Though at some level some give it to
professionals to handle.
Organization’s which ones was
specializing in only one product or services had diversified
or increased their product range for exampleTata – motors, steels, salt, tea,
software, insurance etc and think about Reliance – petroleum,
information technology, insurance etc, multiplexes they have
theaters, bowling,fungames for children, almost all
kind of cuisine.
Probably today day outlook has changed
and the need of the hour is so simple to change our thought of
not just preaching but fist PRACTICING for our own self.
All most all problems start when one gets
stuck with one choice. As each person is different and every
one of youlike
every thing depending on the MOOD, is it so.
If you can have multiple services or
features and the quality and standard are above average and
for sure it is what one goes by his or her rationalized
thinking.
This article was an eye opener to me as a
Modeler, Trainer, Coach as some one in high rank was speaking
about offering various services by an service provider and
referring the OLD saying “ jack of all trade ” just remember
and realize “ MAP is NOT the Territory”.
So first check for self the
following,
1) Whether
I am holding on to only one product or service – Choices are
many.
2) While
making decision whether I am repeating the same process or
loop.
3)
Increase your choices
4) More
choices more freedom
5) More
quality
6) More
options
7) Make
sure you are enhancing your learning curve and cruising
ahead
8) More
tools, there is every possibility of faster decision
making
9) See for
yourself, Speak with the concerned personally and decide
10) Explore and be open to
every thing
Ask yourself
What is stoppingme ?
Why not I do?
What will happen if I do?
What will happen if I don’t do?
Many had written their own histories and
if you want to be one among them then become master of all
there is every facility now to become master as we are already
masters. Every one knows how to work with computers, How to do
basic cooking, how to wash our own clothes as the time
demands, how to groom children when the better half is not
active, how to purchase, how to market ourselves, how to
teach, how to sing, how to dance and the list is endless.
Every one has time and do not say you
don’t. Interest in spending time for some productive purpose
instead of ruining in bar’s. Think about it, the choice is
your’s.
The saying meant not to be a jack that is
not to be INCOMPLETE if you have time, interest and passion
and if you can complete any skill that is absolutely fine but
many are using only for the sake without understanding the
implied meaning behind the old saying.
Yesterday doctrines are today’s RULES
which are tomorrow’s history.
Take the learning from the past add more
and keep on updating yourself for being in the present and
creating your own future.
Theory of evolution says that the fittest
will survive. And Human being know hoe to walk, run, swim and
learned to fly, to eat various delicacies.
At last I am thankful to that person who
was instrumental in my process of learning.
Regards,
C.J.Jeyachander.B.Sc.,MB
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NATURAL WAY OF PAINLESS BIRTHING -
HYPNOBIRTHING
This is way back in 2002, when I was
expecting my second baby who was due to be born in 1 st week of Feb the next year. I
was more prepared and knew what to expect on the birthing day
of my child, which was the state of mind when my son was born
a year ago before this. People around me may have read my mind
or through their experience, told me the child birth is going
to be smooth like a cake walk as it is the second time I am
giving birth. The birth day of my child did arrive but a week
before the due date on 26
thJan 2003. My little darling daughter was born with no
hassle bustle within 2hrs from the time of the birth show. The
birthing process was of course very easy and smooth process.
Though happy giving birth to my child, my
thoughts kept pondering why not the same happen when I gave
birth to my son 2 yrs back.
What went wrong then and what were the
right things here?
Why and why’s kept coming up with lot of
comparisons between the first birth and the second.
On the search, my thoughts went to the
basic science learnt that all mammals system work similarly.
If all mammals can give birth naturally without assistance,
then human beings can also give birth naturally. When all the
systems of the body, CNS(Central Nervous System), Circulatory
system, Respiratory system, Digestive system and Excretory
system of the mother can work perfectly, the Reproductive
system which has shown good signs by letting the baby grow
inside the uterus is also in a perfect state. What happens to
only this system during the final stage of pregnancy, i.e
giving birth to the baby?
The moment the couple comes to know the
woman’s body is prepared and has accepted the growth of the
tiny little wonder in her. There is enlightenment, excitement
and more than all this a kind of unexplainable joy for
receiving a new member to the family. All this excitement
droops down to the couple more for the mother , the very
thought of the day she is going to make it a reality of the
child from the womb into her hands.
why so?
The mind kept pondering for years with
these questions for years, till I got introduced to Hypnosis
and Hypnotherapy. On the course of becoming a Clinical
Hypnotherapist, I learnt more about the mind and its working.
The developmental stagesof
the mind according to the stages of the physical growth along
with the information taken in from all ways in the process of
self growth , leading to the persons character, behaviour, and
more than all this the belief system that gets ingrained into
the self .
The mind determines what and when the
body feels and works on the thought pattern of one. Our mind
through the brain (Central Nervous System) controls the body
and its activities. The mind brings in a bodily change
physiologically and with chemical reaction within,
corresponding to the every suggestion, thought or emotions one
takes in. whatever is experienced in the body is determined by
the body. Remember the Pavlov’s experiment with the dog,
salivating with the ring of the bell, for the food to be
served. The mind gets conditioned to react in a particular way
with repeatedly exposed to a particular suggestion or the
thoughts coming in from many sources, creating a kind of a
myth or called belief for a particular kind of
situation
The mind also can be termed as a tool
with an echo- effect. Whatever thoughts or emotions, we create
the mind attracts the same. Whatever you propose first will
come back to you exactly the way you want it to be or presumed
it to be. Remember the phrase “the rich gets richer and the
poor gets poorer”, this is because the rich is always thinking
about money and more money and works for it. The mind reacts
to the thought of being motivated to achieve something and
works toward to achieve the same.
I got few answers to the questions, which
had got expanded with numbers with others experiences. The
second process of giving birth was relating to the
conditioning process of the mind, but again why not for few
others? Was this relating to the boomerang effect of the mind
or is it that the parent (the mother) was not motivated, but
is it not every woman loves to give birth to her child in a
peaceful, calmer way, naturally. The conclusion that I came up
was the mother to be is influenced by the environmental
information she receives or by her own experience. So what is
the way to recondition her to make her body work as it has to
work naturally? The answer again I got from my Clinical
Hypnotherapy course. The mind can be de-conditioned and re-
conditioned for a particular kind of a
situation/incident.
During this search I was introduced to
yoga and breathing techniques. During this process I learnt
that the way a mother breath’s during the birth of the baby is
more important for her to achieve a natural process of
birthing. The muscles can be toned for the day during the
course of her pregnancy using different yoga exercises. But
still I could not conclude that this is the way a mother could
give birth naturally. What about the bodily (physical) stress
she undergoes or the so called pain that is induced during the
birth process and many more questions started to
arise.
As I was going through this concept and
helping my clients to overcome their problems related to
stress, memory, goal accomplishment, self- confidence,
self-esteem. I even worked with clients with insomnia,
addition problems, allergies, but the answer to birthing
naturally was still lingering within me. Few doors started to
open with answers when worked with different clients for
menopause and sexual dysfunction. A big eye opener was when I
worked with one of my client for sprain in left leg using pain
management.
As if the bud of the flower opening up
the pondering questions relating to birthing got its answer
with the combination of hypnotherapy, yoga, breathing
techniques as a tool for birthing mothers along with the
concept of magnetizing the mind to attract natural
birth.
With the process of hypnosis the mind can
be de-conditioned with the negative images and thoughts of
birthing and re- conditioned for a natural, calm birth and
also help the mind for the process of handling the strain by
the muscles (related to as pain). Toning of the muscles for
it’s function during birth by exercising the body with Yoga
along with the breathing techniques related during the various
stages of birthing process. Along with all these, magnetizing
the mind to achieve a natural, calm, peaceful birth of the
baby into this world.
Be a mother to give the best for your
child, if you wish your child want to be happy, confident,
self reliant, fearless, creative, with high thinking, and
processing ability as you already well aware of all this
starts from mother. Now the doors are open for you to select
the best for you and your child to enjoy birthing in a
painless and painfree way. Fear is in mind you are more than
your mind, access the extraordinary power of your deeper mind
and make your birthing a divine experience.
Our way the natural, painless and
painfree way of birthing, come join us.
Er. Anuradha BE., CMP NLP., C.Ht.,
Licensed Hypnobirthing Practitioner,
Director,
Basix - Centre For Human
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Using EFT with
children - 9 thoughts helpful
Hi all /
as,
C,J
Jeyachander of India provides a useful example of EFT for neck
pain his young son. In the
end the 9 summarizes useful thoughts about EFT and
children.
The
Editors
By Dr. CJ
Jeyachander
Dear
Gary,
Greetings, and
I am the Dr.CJJeyachander of Bangalore, India. Thank you for your gift (EFT) to this
world. I'm here to share my
experience after I've spent a lot of time implementing this
valuable lesson in my office.
My young son
had reported having neck pain and believed that the level of
intensity was 6.5 on a scale of 0-10. He said he was well aware of my practice.
I asked if he was interested
in tapping using EFT
MAGIC POINTS. He knows of
EFT and other techniques that I use and it does frequently
with friends (only tapping 3 or 4
points) ... children are
more intuitive. Her answer
was yes and then I made ??my setup statement after discussing
it with him.
Even though I have
this pain in the neck, I deeply and completely accept.
In my
experience with children, physical pain is not usually
emotional - and it's up to the therapist to determine if
organic, physical, emotional or oriented to past lives.
For he was completely
physically and receiving training in Taekwondo and football.
Somehow got this kink in his
neck and shared it with me. I started to do the complete sequence and
the 9 Steps and the sequence
again.
Then I asked
him to show me the extent of your pain with his two palms -
the closer, the pain is less and if there is more pain
farther. He said he still
had pain and showed his palms with 50 cm wide between the two.
Then I asked him
tapping using "Pain
left" for another 3 times and then went to
bed.
The next day I
saw that he was holding his neck from side while doing all the
tasks of preparing, organizing and other activities.
This told me that the pain
was still there and that he was handling it. I was surprised that I could sleep
without any hassle. Then I
asked him a little more tapping , which he
did, and told him to do the same at school as well.
The next day - that is, the
third day, I asked him tapping again and for
the evening and not holding the neck. Since then no
pain.
Here's an
understanding that prompted me to share this with you and all
/ as.
1) Children
are interested and enthusiastic to tap .
2) Your level
of participation is high.
3) They start practicing and gradually do
the same for their friends.
4) Perseverance pays and this is
transmitted to the young mind.
5) EFT is portable, so my phrase for EFT
is "HEALING ANYTIME, ANYWHERE"
6) Children have more intuition, which
must be encouraged instead of implementing our own beliefs.
Make them become familiar
with the techniques of energy.
7) EFT is so simple so that even a child
can do. Ah yes, the result
is the same.
8)
Perseverance and belief of my son when he was still sore the
second day and the third day, he was still interested in
making tapping instead of
asking me to take him to treat his neck by some other method.
9) Children do
not lie - if they are not interested, they
leave.
The list is
endless and I ask all / as sharing EFT - the simplest
technique for children. Autorízalos using EFT, as this helps to
lift the anxieties and other kinds of emotional problems they
may face as they grow. Regular practice of EFT remove
undesirable trees of the forest and keep the individual
healthy (mentally and
physically).
Thanks and
Regards,
C.J.Jeyachander |
Usando EFT con niños - 9 pensamientos
útiles
Hola a todos/as,
El C. J. Jeyachander de la India da un
ejemplo útil de EFT para el dolor del cuello de su hijo joven.
Al final el resume 9 pensamientos útiles acerca de EFT y
niños.
Abrazos, Gary
Por el Dr. C. J.
Jeyachander
Querido
Gary,
Saludos, y yo soy el Dr.C.J.Jeyachander
de Bangalore, India. Gracias por tu regalo de (EFT) a este
mundo. Estoy aquí para compartir mi experiencia después de que
he pasado mucho tiempo implementando esta valiosa enseñanza en
mi consultorio.
Mi hijo joven había reportado que tenía
dolor en el cuello y creía que el nivel de intensidad era 6.5
en la escala de 0 a 10. El dijo que estaba muy consciente de
mi práctica. Yo le pregunté si estaba interesado en tapping los PUNTOS MAGICOS usando
EFT. El sabe de EFT y otras técnicas que yo uso y lo hace
frecuentemente con sus amigos (solamente tapping 3 o 4 puntos)... los niños
son mas intuitivos. Su respuesta fue afirmativa y entonces
hice mi frase preparatoria después de discutirlo con el.
Aun cuando tengo este dolor de cuello, yo
me acepto total y completamente.
En mi experiencia con niños, el dolor
físico no es generalmente emocional - y le toca al terapeuta
determinar si es orgánico, físico, emocional u orientado a
vidas pasadas. Para él era completamente físico ya que recibe
entrenamiento en Taekwondo y fútbol. De alguna forma consiguió
esta torcedura en su cuello y lo compartió conmigo. Lo puse a
hacer la secuencia completa y los 9 Pasos y la secuencia de
nuevo.
Entonces le pedí mostrarme el grado de su
dolor con sus dos palmas - entre mas cerca, el dolor es menos
y si mas lejos hay mas dolor. El dijo que todavía tenía dolor
y mostró sus palmas con 50 cm de ancho entre las dos. Entonces
le pedí que hiciera tapping
usando "Dolor restante" por otras 3 veces y después el se fue
a la cama.
Al día siguiente vi que estaba
sosteniendo su cuello de lado mientras que hacía todas las
tareas de preparar, organizar y otras actividades. Esto me
indicó que el dolor estaba allí todavía y que el estaba
manejándolo. Yo estaba sorprendido que el hubiera podido
dormir sin ninguna molestia. Entonces le pedí que hiciera un
poco más de tapping, lo cual
hizo, y le dije que hiciera lo mismo en la escuela también. Al
día siguiente - esto es, al tercer día, le pedí que hiciera
tapping de nuevo y para la tarde
ya no sostenía el cuello. Desde entonces no tiene
dolor.
Aquí esta un entendimiento que me movió a
compartir esto contigo y con todos/as.
1) Los niños están interesados y
entusiastas de hacer tapping.
2) Su nivel de participación es
elevado.
3) Ellos empiezan practicando
y gradualmente hacen lo mismo por sus amigos.
4) PERSEVERANCIA paga y esto es
transmitido a la mente joven.
5) EFT
es portátil, así que mi frase para EFT es "CURACION A
CUALQUIER HORA Y EN CUALQUIER LUGAR"
6) Los niños tienen más intuición, la
cual debe ser fomentada en lugar de implantar nuestras propias
creencias. Hazlos que se familiaricen con las técnicas de
energía.
7) EFT es tan sencillo forma
que aun un niño puede hacer. Ah sí, el resultado es el
mismo.
8) Perseverancia y la creencia
de mi hijo que aun cuando el tenia dolor el segundo día y el
tercer día, el estaba todavía interesado en hacer tapping en lugar de pedirme que lo
llevara para tratar su cuello con algún otro método.
9) Los niños no mienten - si ellos no
están interesados, se van.
La lista es interminable y yo pido a
todos/as compartir EFT - la técnica mas sencilla para niños.
Autorízalos a usar EFT, ya que esto los ayuda a salir de
ansiedades y otras clases de problemas emocionales que ellos
puedan enfrentar cuando crezcan. La práctica regular de EFT
removerá árboles indeseables del bosque y conservará al
individuo saludable (tanto mentalmente como físicamente).
Gracias y Saludos,
C.J.Jeyachander |
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