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NLP &
BELIEF
What is belief?,
How beliefs are formed?,
What role does beliefs play in our
life?
Are some of the question to be asked
.Many are not aware of this andwith out proper understanding
carry their own belief which may be limited and it may cause
lot of challenges in ones life.
What is Belief?
Sales executive may believe that the sale
is not going to materialize or the product is high priced or
his/her target is not rationals.
Child may believe
that s/he may fail in maths
Wife may believe that
she is not good in cooking
Graduate may believe
that he may not get the job
Etc.
These are some of the beliefs and now let
us see how beliefs are formed?
Beliefs are formed in
young age of a person. When a child is young the parent says
or spanks the child that he is not good at any thing. As the
child is in the stage of learning how to do and the parent
with their competence and perfection wants the child to
achieve the same level. Child then tries it with their
friends, if once again some one says that it is not good then
this particular point get fixed in mind. As the child grows
s/he has to be in group and work in a team as well as prove to
her/his parents that they are outperforming. The parents who
had not understood the child and who expects a perfection of
grown ups are not in a position to encourage the child and
help the child to develop their abilities .
As the child reaches
the teen age, the point of not doing good becomes stronger as
the confidence level and the self esteem is low. The child may
not perform well and starts following as even teachers is not
in a position to encourage by finding out the cause .The
teachers are busy in giving their praise to students who score
high or who succeeds in various competition and making them as
representatives .
Child who has the
point fixed (not good) gets reinforced every now and then by
the people around them and as the person enters in to college
life ,they with the limiting belief shy out from the
responsibilities given to them and may not even participate in
many of the activities. As adult they start their life career
in a low paid job or they may join a good job and may not
perform and come to a stand still.
Above I had given
only an example and beliefs exist in every person. A CEO may
believe that investment in expansion is waste or a field
executive may believe that his workers are not educated to
give in their views or a husband may believe that wife as a
woman has to listen to him or a Teacher may believe that
students has to listen them.
The most interesting
thing is that even people well learned believe that they know
every thing in their field of work as they may not see some of
the subtle areas and finally they blame on others.
I had classified
belief as
Limiting
Beliefs
Empowering beliefs
Over empowered
beliefs
Understanding and
Updating beliefs are those beliefs where you have confidence
and self esteem in proper ratio or proportion.
Over Empowered
beliefs are like over confidence where by one thinks that what
ever s/he says and does is right possibly till the time is in
their way. One has to remember we work according to time ,Time
does not work for us.
Confidence is like
riding a bicycle during learning with out others help in the
street where there is no much traffic and over confidence is
one taking the bicycle in the main road and trying to ride by
leaving a hand. Here when the rider falls then the incident
some times becomes a beliefs where by s/he never touches the
cycle again orthat matter any vehicle if the
emotional pain suffered by the accident is more and this
becomes a limiting Belief.
What role that
Beliefs play in ones life?
Interesting every
being if you ask me function based only on their beliefs in
this material world .success and failure ,Happiness and
sorrow, Satisfaction and Dissatisfaction ,confident etc are
mostly based on ones belief .In my previous example I had
outlined how a belief of not good had been formed in a person
and let me tell you some of the effects.
As a adult with
belief of not good enough will not perform well in both in
personal as well as in the professional part. Personally he
may not be out spoken, he may shy out in the relationship with
his partner, with his friends and relatives. S/He may get in
to unproductive habits like smoking ,Drinking ,Drugs.
Professionally ,S/He
may not be in job which demands more responsibility
,creativity ,pressure they may be as a blue colour worker who
is comfortable with routine jobs.
A child with this
belief may not be a good team worker ,may be alone,
performance in school as well as in other activities may be
less or totally absent.
May have friends with
problematic behaviour ,may lie ,blame ,steal etc.
What are the ways to
have empowering Belief?
NLP helps to unlearn
our disempowering beliefs by working with oneself and relearn
a empowering one as one has the power with in themselves to
reinforce it.
If you can understand
your belief system then you can be free of your emotional and
physical disorders .Success becomes a part of you .If one
thinks S/He have empowering beliefs and only because of it one
has reached to this particular position then I ask them to
check once again If you are a executive then what has stopped
you to become manager if you are a manager then what is
stopping you of becoming General manager or CEO or chairman or
President .
Every one have
beliefs and most of them are aware of what is their belief is
as probably they may not know exactly what beliefs are or they
are lethargic or stuck in the challenges of every moment etc
.Some times one take it easily for granted and normally put
this way as
“My mother did so I
am also doing it”
This reminds me of a
story some time back a wonderful understanding couple lived in
Bangalore . Satish was a software engineer and his wife Rashmi
was in HR .They lived along with his mother and father .Satish
was very fond of turkey prepared by his mother and he asked
Rashmi to learn the method of preparation from his mother
.Rashmi too agreed and was learning the lesson from her in
law. Rashmi’s mother-in- law cleaned the turkey and took off
the tail portion and marinated with her secret recipe and
cooked it in oven .Rashmi by seeing this was questioning her
mother in law for better understanding as she was questioning
Rashmi asked her in law what was the reason behind cutting the
tail portion ,her in law replied “for this you have to ask my
mother and I am doing what my mother used to do” .Days passed
and they made a trip to their home town Mysore. There Rashmi’s
in laws mother was asked to cook turkey and Rashmi was eager
to learn more about the style .As Rashmi was observing and
learning she did every thing more or less the same as her in
law and finally she did not cut the tail portion of turkey by
seeing this Rashmi asked her why she had not done so? and
explained what she learned from her mother in law and the way
she used to throw off the tail portion ,Rashmi asked her why
she is not doing the way she was doing it earlier .Mother in
laws mother replied that, during our days we were not having
big oven or grill or utensil so when the tail has been cut the
turkey fits into the utensil we were having .Now we have ample
space to cook the turkey as it is.
The above story
depicts how people followbeliefs blindly and how beliefs are
formed by the influence of authority and more interestingly
how the limiting beliefs can be carried for a long time until
you become aware of your self and realize that NLP helps you
to identify the limiting beliefs and understand the cause of
it and the effect it imposes in you and finally to drop it and
learn a new belief.
CHOOSE THE BEST NOW AS YOUR DECISION MAY
SHAPE TOMORROW
Shihan Dr.C.J.Jeyachander. the NLP
WAY.
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NLP & Self
NLP is a way of life and also a
ingredient like salt/sugar in food it is to life .NLP is magic
this reminds me of a story Long time back there was a big
emperor ruling a huge empire and he had a son as the emperor
was coming to the stage of retirement and as the prince was
not aware about himself and the external world emperor sent
the prince for touring the empire. Prince believed his father
and his father as god as the emperor thought him that he is
god and there is no island in his empire. Prince after
traveling the empire at last came down a mountain and was
enjoying the beautiful sunset on the sea shore. when he was
fiesting his eyes his vision got struck to a person with dark
meroon robes and with a hat standing in the middle of the sea,
Prince asked him who and what is he doing there. The man said
that he is standing on a island and he is god. This was
against his belief that his father is god and there is no
island the man challenged him, The Prince went to the palace
and met his father and narrated what he saw on the sea shore
,the father said that the man was lying and he is god and
there are no island and the person he met was magician. Prince
some what consolidated went to the person standing and said
that he is magician and that is not a island. The person said
him firmly that no your father is a magician and I am GOD.
Prince could not believe himself and all his hopes, believes
was just started to tumble. Prince went firmly to father and
said that you are a magician and not god then all of a sudden
the emperor with his barring voice commanded let the death
come and take you as the prince was trembling with fear as the
death was approaching then that moment he decided not
MORE............. and with his full strength and authority
commanded let this death have death that point of time every
thing vanished from him and his father saw him and said yes
son I am a Magician and the person you met is god and now you
are an magician and handed over the empire to him.
NLP transforms any one living
by it a person of strength, powerful, motivated, completely
aware of every moment, totaly charged , always be in the high
state of energy, and more... If you want to be a
MAGICIAN then NLP is the way.
If you may choose to be an NLP er
then the entire world will change for you with lot abundance
and unlimited resources.
Hearing the words or reading the
words may stay for few days and understanding, practicing will
make you to believe yourself.
I used to wonder how people are
more successful and why many are not. sometimes in
their field as you may see, hear in this practical world many
organization and people who was successful and top achievers
could not sustain or continue further. NLP is the source code
for your questions.
through NLP you may convert your
FEAR to Power.
NLP is an powerful
amunition to destroy your own negative, non productive
thoughts and also others unwanted or unauthorized influences
on you.
CHANGE
WITH NLP
Shihan
C.J.Jeyachander. the NLP WAY.
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NLP & Rapport
Rapport,which is important in any
relationship and any situation. It makes an unison in
relation. Unison is nothing but dancing together.When you are
totaly involved in an activity /seminar/sales/negotiation go
back to the point of time and visualize what happened then.
Can you spot out what
was special on that occasion which made the magic. How was
your feeling, what you saw happening and what you heared? Can
you write down the steps so that you can make it happen once
again .
Now go to a situation
where you were very much confident about your presentation and
you are still wondering how you could not convince the group
or client.
I believe trust plays
a major role in any relationship it might be personal or
business.To build trust can you write some of the essential
points .Trust once created with a person will last long , then
the other person starts believing you completly.Now you have
to answer this question, how many days you need to create
trust?
how many days it will
take you to trust some one?
Here I have not asked
you what are the factors necessary for you to trust others. I
had focussed on the time period.
Why?
Take for example you are in a retail
bussiness and you have to finish the deal in the same place or
for that matter in this age of globalization a deal has to be
clinched in the first meeting itself.
Though you might have a belief that trust
take long time in any relationship.
I'll tell you in NLP it can be created and
maintained with in fraction of "seconds''
Here I had mentioned" seconds" Wondering!
Starting from physical, mental and emotional you can make the
other person see,hear and feel that you are like him.
LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE
Through NLP you can convert anyone by
understanding their world first and attach your requirements
as additions.It is like in a relationship there is no
compulsion wife may like watching TV and husband may like to
read. If there is a trust and an approach of give and
take.Then the relation will be fine.
GIVE and TAKE
NLP Rapport first makes you understand
about others and this helps to create trust in others .Then it
helps to maintain turst so you are with them and when the link
becomes strong then you lead the other person.
For many Sales personals /Negotiaters
/Proffessionals, clinching a deal may be a magic and here Iam
not talking about average performance and top performance Iam
talking about consistant banchmarking with the process of
undrstanding others in relationship .
but for person equiped with NLP it is
feedback.
NLP -helps you to progam yourself and be
in the state of total awarness.You probably might agree that
most of time we are not aware and you may choose to be aware
from now on and NLP helps you to create relationships in
seconds and have total control of it .If you are going back to
the valuable time when the you can see and feel the failure in
personal and business you will probably understand how NLP may
help you achieve and maintain the position.
change is the one that is permenant.
Shihan
Dr.C.J.Jeyachander. the NLP WAY.
Become a certified NLP
practitioner
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WAY.
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Jack of All Trades and Master of None
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Have you heard this old saying and in this
dynamic world let us see how this old saying has been followed
by all most all.
Take a example of a computer imagine that
the system can run only one software and the system is
specially designed and developed for that purpose for example
say the system can only do document oriented work, can you
tell me how the product will fare well in the market..
Oh
yes I intuitively understood your answers and now let us go
through the principle of mastering one skill in humans.
Is
there any organization that is satisfied with its workforce to
get specialized only in one skill. Just take time to answer,
may be there is a profound understanding which this article
may reveal like an Aladdin’s magic lamp. I guess and wonder
even the employers are making many of the skills and qualities
that are MUST in their employees and are training them
specially. An employee has to be multifaceted and he must have
high level of competence and skill to lead a team, a
department, a branch, a unit anda organization. So before reaching
the level of CEO, CFO,COO one must have proficiency in
all the departments and the working of each and every area is
must.
If
you don’t want to be in the upper layer of leader then there
is no need for you to know.
As
this the case and for maintaining the position in the market
place an organization has to be continuously inventing and
introducing new products to sustain its present level of
market share. If this is not been adhered then there are many
examples like HM, FIAT, APPLE etc and if you ask me each and
every organization is facing this some where or other at some
point of time.
Now ask yourself is this true and be
honest. Learning needs understanding and the earlier one
understands one can actually go ahead which is a quality of a
leader. When the organization or to say the leader as s/he is
the person responsible for taking the decision which is most
crucial is responsible for success.
When even a mobile phone that you have,
have almost all the features the order of today is more
services from one provider or product.
All multi level stores like Fab mall, Food world,
Reliance,subiksha, stoppers shop etc started
providing almost allproduct’s under one single roof and
no one questions. Though at some level some give it to
professionals to handle.
Organization’s which ones was specializing
in only one product or services had diversified or increased
their product range for exampleTata – motors, steels, salt, tea,
software, insurance etc and think about Reliance – petroleum,
information technology, insurance etc, multiplexes they have
theaters, bowling,fungames for children, almost all
kind of cuisine.
Probably today day outlook has changed and
the need of the hour is so simple to change our thought of not
just preaching but fist PRACTICING for our own self.
All most all problems start when one gets
stuck with one choice. As each person is different and every
one of youlike
every thing depending on the MOOD, is it so.
If
you can have multiple services or features and the quality and
standard are above average and for sure it is what one goes by
his or her rationalized thinking.
This article was an eye opener to me as a
Modeler, Trainer, Coach as some one in high rank was speaking
about offering various services by an service provider and
referring the OLD saying “ jack of all trade ” just remember
and realize “ MAP is NOT the Territory”.
So
first check for self the following,
1) Whether
I am holding on to only one product or service – Choices are
many.
2) While
making decision whether I am repeating the same process or
loop.
3)
Increase your choices
4) More
choices more freedom
5) More
quality
6) More
options
7) Make
sure you are enhancing your learning curve and cruising
ahead
8) More
tools, there is every possibility of faster decision
making
9) See for
yourself, Speak with the concerned personally and decide
10) Explore and be open to
every thing
Ask yourself
What is stoppingme ?
Why not I do?
What will happen if I do?
What will happen if I don’t do?
Many had written their own histories and
if you want to be one among them then become master of all
there is every facility now to become master as we are already
masters. Every one knows how to work with computers, How to do
basic cooking, how to wash our own clothes as the time
demands, how to groom children when the better half is not
active, how to purchase, how to market ourselves, how to
teach, how to sing, how to dance and the list is endless.
Every one has time and do not say you
don’t. Interest in spending time for some productive purpose
instead of ruining in bar’s. Think about it, the choice is
your’s.
The saying meant not to be a jack that is
not to be INCOMPLETE if you have time, interest and passion
and if you can complete any skill that is absolutely fine but
many are using only for the sake without understanding the
implied meaning behind the old saying.
Yesterday doctrines are today’s RULES
which are tomorrow’s history.
Take the learning from the past add more
and keep on updating yourself for being in the present and
creating your own future.
Theory of evolution says that the fittest
will survive. And Human being know hoe to walk, run, swim and
learned to fly, to eat various delicacies.
At
last I am thankful to that person who was instrumental in my
process of learning.
Regards,
C.J.Jeyachander.B.Sc.,MB
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NATURAL WAY OF PAINLESS BIRTHING -
HYPNOBIRTHING
This is way back in 2002, when I was
expecting my second baby who was due to be born in 1 st week of Feb the next year. I was
more prepared and knew what to expect on the birthing day of
my child, which was the state of mind when my son was born a
year ago before this. People around me may have read my mind
or through their experience, told me the child birth is going
to be smooth like a cake walk as it is the second time I am
giving birth. The birth day of my child did arrive but a week
before the due date on 26 thJan
2003. My little darling daughter was born with no hassle
bustle within 2hrs from the time of the birth show. The
birthing process was of course very easy and smooth process.
Though happy giving birth to my child, my
thoughts kept pondering why not the same happen when I gave
birth to my son 2 yrs back.
What went wrong then and what were the
right things here?
Why and why’s kept coming up with lot of
comparisons between the first birth and the second.
On
the search, my thoughts went to the basic science learnt that
all mammals system work similarly. If all mammals can give
birth naturally without assistance, then human beings can also
give birth naturally. When all the systems of the body,
CNS(Central Nervous System), Circulatory system, Respiratory
system, Digestive system and Excretory system of the mother
can work perfectly, the Reproductive system which has shown
good signs by letting the baby grow inside the uterus is also
in a perfect state. What happens to only this system during
the final stage of pregnancy, i.e giving birth to the
baby?
The moment the couple comes to know the
woman’s body is prepared and has accepted the growth of the
tiny little wonder in her. There is enlightenment, excitement
and more than all this a kind of unexplainable joy for
receiving a new member to the family. All this excitement
droops down to the couple more for the mother , the very
thought of the day she is going to make it a reality of the
child from the womb into her hands.
why so?
The mind kept pondering for years with
these questions for years, till I got introduced to Hypnosis
and Hypnotherapy. On the course of becoming a Clinical
Hypnotherapist, I learnt more about the mind and its working.
The developmental stagesof
the mind according to the stages of the physical growth along
with the information taken in from all ways in the process of
self growth , leading to the persons character, behaviour, and
more than all this the belief system that gets ingrained into
the self .
The mind determines what and when the body
feels and works on the thought pattern of one. Our mind
through the brain (Central Nervous System) controls the body
and its activities. The mind brings in a bodily change
physiologically and with chemical reaction within,
corresponding to the every suggestion, thought or emotions one
takes in. whatever is experienced in the body is determined by
the body. Remember the Pavlov’s experiment with the dog,
salivating with the ring of the bell, for the food to be
served. The mind gets conditioned to react in a particular way
with repeatedly exposed to a particular suggestion or the
thoughts coming in from many sources, creating a kind of a
myth or called belief for a particular kind of
situation
The mind also can be termed as a tool with
an echo- effect. Whatever thoughts or emotions, we create the
mind attracts the same. Whatever you propose first will come
back to you exactly the way you want it to be or presumed it
to be. Remember the phrase “the rich gets richer and the poor
gets poorer”, this is because the rich is always thinking
about money and more money and works for it. The mind reacts
to the thought of being motivated to achieve something and
works toward to achieve the same.
I got few answers to the questions, which
had got expanded with numbers with others experiences. The
second process of giving birth was relating to the
conditioning process of the mind, but again why not for few
others? Was this relating to the boomerang effect of the mind
or is it that the parent (the mother) was not motivated, but
is it not every woman loves to give birth to her child in a
peaceful, calmer way, naturally. The conclusion that I came up
was the mother to be is influenced by the environmental
information she receives or by her own experience. So what is
the way to recondition her to make her body work as it has to
work naturally? The answer again I got from my Clinical
Hypnotherapy course. The mind can be de-conditioned and re-
conditioned for a particular kind of a
situation/incident.
During this search I was introduced to
yoga and breathing techniques. During this process I learnt
that the way a mother breath’s during the birth of the baby is
more important for her to achieve a natural process of
birthing. The muscles can be toned for the day during the
course of her pregnancy using different yoga exercises. But
still I could not conclude that this is the way a mother could
give birth naturally. What about the bodily (physical) stress
she undergoes or the so called pain that is induced during the
birth process and many more questions started to
arise.
As I was going through this concept and
helping my clients to overcome their problems related to
stress, memory, goal accomplishment, self- confidence,
self-esteem. I even worked with clients with insomnia,
addition problems, allergies, but the answer to birthing
naturally was still lingering within me. Few doors started to
open with answers when worked with different clients for
menopause and sexual dysfunction. A big eye opener was when I
worked with one of my client for sprain in left leg using pain
management.
As if the bud of the flower opening up the
pondering questions relating to birthing got its answer with
the combination of hypnotherapy, yoga, breathing techniques as
a tool for birthing mothers along with the concept of
magnetizing the mind to attract natural birth.
With the process of hypnosis the mind can
be de-conditioned with the negative images and thoughts of
birthing and re- conditioned for a natural, calm birth and
also help the mind for the process of handling the strain by
the muscles (related to as pain). Toning of the muscles for
it’s function during birth by exercising the body with Yoga
along with the breathing techniques related during the various
stages of birthing process. Along with all these, magnetizing
the mind to achieve a natural, calm, peaceful birth of the
baby into this world.
Be a mother to give the best for your
child, if you wish your child want to be happy, confident,
self reliant, fearless, creative, with high thinking, and
processing ability as you already well aware of all this
starts from mother. Now the doors are open for you to select
the best for you and your child to enjoy birthing in a
painless and painfree way. Fear is in mind you are more than
your mind, access the extraordinary power of your deeper mind
and make your birthing a divine experience.
Our way the natural, painless and painfree
way of birthing, come join us.
Er. Anuradha BE., CMP NLP., C.Ht.,
Licensed Hypnobirthing Practitioner,
Director,
Basix - Centre For Human
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Using EFT with
children - 9 thoughts helpful
Hi all /
as,
C,J
Jeyachander of India provides a useful example of EFT for neck
pain his young son. In the
end the 9 summarizes useful thoughts about EFT and
children.
The
Editors
By Dr. CJ
Jeyachander
Dear
Gary,
Greetings, and I
am the Dr.CJJeyachander of Bangalore, India. Thank you for your gift (EFT) to this
world. I'm here to share my
experience after I've spent a lot of time implementing this
valuable lesson in my office.
My young son had
reported having neck pain and believed that the level of
intensity was 6.5 on a scale of 0-10. He said he was well aware of my practice.
I asked if he was interested
in tapping using EFT MAGIC
POINTS. He knows of EFT and
other techniques that I use and it does frequently with
friends (only tapping 3 or 4 points)
... children are more
intuitive. Her answer was yes
and then I made ??my setup statement after discussing it with
him.
Even though I have
this pain in the neck, I deeply and completely accept.
In my experience
with children, physical pain is not usually emotional - and
it's up to the therapist to determine if organic, physical,
emotional or oriented to past lives. For he was completely physically and
receiving training in Taekwondo and football. Somehow got this kink in his neck and
shared it with me. I started
to do the complete sequence and the 9 Steps and the sequence
again.
Then I asked him
to show me the extent of your pain with his two palms - the
closer, the pain is less and if there is more pain farther.
He said he still had pain and
showed his palms with 50 cm wide between the two. Then I asked him tapping using "Pain
left" for another 3 times and then went to
bed.
The next day I
saw that he was holding his neck from side while doing all the
tasks of preparing, organizing and other activities.
This told me that the pain
was still there and that he was handling it. I was surprised that I could sleep without
any hassle. Then I asked him
a little more tapping , which he did,
and told him to do the same at school as well. The next day - that is, the third day, I
asked him tapping again and for
the evening and not holding the neck. Since then no
pain.
Here's an
understanding that prompted me to share this with you and all
/ as.
1) Children are
interested and enthusiastic to tap .
2) Your level of
participation is high.
3) They start practicing and gradually do
the same for their friends.
4) Perseverance pays and this is
transmitted to the young mind.
5) EFT is portable, so my phrase for EFT
is "HEALING ANYTIME, ANYWHERE"
6) Children have more intuition, which
must be encouraged instead of implementing our own beliefs.
Make them become familiar
with the techniques of energy.
7) EFT is so simple so that even a child
can do. Ah yes, the result is
the same.
8) Perseverance
and belief of my son when he was still sore the second day and
the third day, he was still interested in making
tapping instead of
asking me to take him to treat his neck by some other method.
9) Children do
not lie - if they are not interested, they
leave.
The list is
endless and I ask all / as sharing EFT - the simplest
technique for children. Autorízalos using EFT, as this helps to
lift the anxieties and other kinds of emotional problems they
may face as they grow. Regular practice of EFT remove undesirable
trees of the forest and keep the individual healthy (mentally
and physically).
Thanks and
Regards,
C.J.Jeyachander |
Usando EFT con niños - 9 pensamientos
útiles
Hola a todos/as,
El C. J. Jeyachander de la India da un
ejemplo útil de EFT para el dolor del cuello de su hijo joven.
Al final el resume 9 pensamientos útiles acerca de EFT y
niños.
Abrazos, Gary
Por el Dr. C. J.
Jeyachander
Querido
Gary,
Saludos, y yo soy el Dr.C.J.Jeyachander de
Bangalore, India. Gracias por tu regalo de (EFT) a este mundo.
Estoy aquí para compartir mi experiencia después de que he
pasado mucho tiempo implementando esta valiosa enseñanza en mi
consultorio.
Mi hijo joven había reportado que tenía
dolor en el cuello y creía que el nivel de intensidad era 6.5
en la escala de 0 a 10. El dijo que estaba muy consciente de
mi práctica. Yo le pregunté si estaba interesado en tapping los PUNTOS MAGICOS usando
EFT. El sabe de EFT y otras técnicas que yo uso y lo hace
frecuentemente con sus amigos (solamente tapping 3 o 4 puntos)... los niños
son mas intuitivos. Su respuesta fue afirmativa y entonces
hice mi frase preparatoria después de discutirlo con el.
Aun cuando tengo este dolor de cuello, yo
me acepto total y completamente.
En mi experiencia con niños, el dolor
físico no es generalmente emocional - y le toca al terapeuta
determinar si es orgánico, físico, emocional u orientado a
vidas pasadas. Para él era completamente físico ya que recibe
entrenamiento en Taekwondo y fútbol. De alguna forma consiguió
esta torcedura en su cuello y lo compartió conmigo. Lo puse a
hacer la secuencia completa y los 9 Pasos y la secuencia de
nuevo.
Entonces le pedí mostrarme el grado de su
dolor con sus dos palmas - entre mas cerca, el dolor es menos
y si mas lejos hay mas dolor. El dijo que todavía tenía dolor
y mostró sus palmas con 50 cm de ancho entre las dos. Entonces
le pedí que hiciera tapping
usando "Dolor restante" por otras 3 veces y después el se fue
a la cama.
Al día siguiente vi que estaba sosteniendo
su cuello de lado mientras que hacía todas las tareas de
preparar, organizar y otras actividades. Esto me indicó que el
dolor estaba allí todavía y que el estaba manejándolo. Yo
estaba sorprendido que el hubiera podido dormir sin ninguna
molestia. Entonces le pedí que hiciera un poco más de tapping, lo cual hizo, y le dije que
hiciera lo mismo en la escuela también. Al día siguiente -
esto es, al tercer día, le pedí que hiciera tapping de nuevo y para la tarde ya
no sostenía el cuello. Desde entonces no tiene
dolor.
Aquí esta un entendimiento que me movió a
compartir esto contigo y con todos/as.
1) Los niños están interesados y
entusiastas de hacer tapping.
2) Su nivel de participación es
elevado.
3) Ellos empiezan practicando
y gradualmente hacen lo mismo por sus amigos.
4) PERSEVERANCIA paga y esto es
transmitido a la mente joven.
5) EFT es
portátil, así que mi frase para EFT es "CURACION A CUALQUIER
HORA Y EN CUALQUIER LUGAR"
6) Los niños
tienen más intuición, la cual debe ser fomentada en lugar de
implantar nuestras propias creencias. Hazlos que se
familiaricen con las técnicas de energía.
7) EFT es tan sencillo forma que aun un
niño puede hacer. Ah sí, el resultado es el mismo.
8) Perseverancia y la creencia de mi hijo
que aun cuando el tenia dolor el segundo día y el tercer día,
el estaba todavía interesado en hacer tapping en lugar de pedirme que lo
llevara para tratar su cuello con algún otro método.
9) Los niños no mienten - si ellos no
están interesados, se van.
La lista es interminable y yo pido a
todos/as compartir EFT - la técnica mas sencilla para niños.
Autorízalos a usar EFT, ya que esto los ayuda a salir de
ansiedades y otras clases de problemas emocionales que ellos
puedan enfrentar cuando crezcan. La práctica regular de EFT
removerá árboles indeseables del bosque y conservará al
individuo saludable (tanto mentalmente como físicamente).
Gracias y Saludos,
C.J.Jeyachander |
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